Ruined

* death of her father
* two kids

And she can't stand me..

I'm trying to be supportive but I'm not a good talking kind if guy.. In such situations all you have to do is talk but I'm shit in that. People could write long condolences letters and I couldn't tell a word. I don't look like feeling bad maybe at the beginnings.. Still sometimes my marriage aren't going well lately because we're stuck in two separate islands and each one of us has their own way of comfort..